Plunge into their book and digest their life lessons to help your relationship flourish and thrive.
#LEND ME YOUR EARS MANUAL#
„Lend Me Your Ear and I’ll Give You My Heart is an essential couples manual ‘taken from Life - for Love.’ Roland and Sabine Bösel are a dynamic duo, a juicy couple and passionate learners and teachers. Maya Kollman, internationally renowned Master Imago Coach
#LEND ME YOUR EARS HOW TO#
What a wonderful contribution to understanding the great mystery of how to love and be loved.“ Their stories, coupled with clear explanations about how to unravel the conflict to find the gold, will help anyone who reads it create the relationships they long for. It is their willingness to be vulnerable that makes this book so accessible to any couple. This is not only a book of experts giving you sage advice, but a book written from the heart of their own relationship. In it, Roland and Sabine speak candidly about their own struggles. ‘ Listening isn’t a need we have it’s a gift we give’.„Lend me your ear and I’ll give you my heart is a very special book.
Surely learning this art is a Herculean task in itself but let me leave you with these thoughts, which incidentally I ‘Listened’ from somewhere. With listening I mean attentive hearing and not the selective that we usually do. Listening is an art that we don’t learn in a day but inculcate in us gradually. political columnist and most elegant explicator of our language. It was a blissful experience but strange it may seem I didn’t want to continue it for long for the simple reason that human by nature prefers speaking and voicing his/her opinion than listening. Lend Me Your Ears contains more than two hundred outstanding moments of oratory. My mind was in peace with itself as it had the assurance that not even a single word had come out of it which may disturb somebody. I became the agony aunt for so many not by giving them my valuable advice but by lending them an ear in their hour of despair. Still that day was a very edifying experience, as I got to know so many new facts and figures so alien to me just by attentively listening to conversations floating around me. Eagerly the audience starts to thumb the pages of their handouts, following along breathlessly as the slides go by one after the other.Were not sure what the expected outcome was when PowerPoint first emerged. Those who met me for the first time that day instantaneously termed me as shy, reticent, taciturn, aloof, worse cum worse arrogant and snob, because I had nothing to offer in speech. Lend Me Your Ears Max Atkinson The room darkens and grows hushed, all eyes to the front as the screen comes to life. Mostly I heard gibberish from all the corners, generic sulking is what others had to offer. I was heading for a tough task but I surely wanted to experience the feeling of being a listener for a day. I vouched that come whatever may I shall not unnecessarily speak, even if my brain curses me I shall not give any sort of opinion or advice (solicited or unsolicited). With this global problem of too many mouths to speak and too little ears to listen I decided to be a listener for a day. At once all scribbled the best caricatures their talent could permit of papa bull, mama bull and baby bull without even realizing that how can we have a female bull! That was when a very important fact was taught to all of us that the populace pays less attention to instructions and even if we listen it is always selective hearing.
At one time all speak and nobody listens, resulting in pandemonium in the studio which eventually leads to the host going in for a short break or the viewer surfing to another channel.Īnother example that I recall, in one of the communication technique lectures we were asked to quickly draw a mama bull a papa bull and a baby bull. However when the implementation time comes this is not what happens.
Well organized and planned with the idea that one at a time will speaks while the rest listen. Born in Glasgow in 1956, Steve was the original photographer and inventor of the Straight Up style of. While the host plays the role of a convener. The audience is expected to listen, form an opinion and ask questions.
#LEND ME YOUR EARS TV#
One often sees debates on TV channels where eminent guests are invited to speak for or against a topic. Mums yelling ‘ My children don’t listen’, kids shouting ‘ Our parents don’t listen’, wife sulking ‘ he never listens’ strengthen this verity. Mundane incidences empirically verify this fact that humans lack the art of harking. We still have to be repeatedly told ‘Could you kindly listen’. As per my interpretation it also indirectly states a truth so surreal, which is, even with two ears and a massive frequency range of human hearing spreading from 20 hertz to 20,000 hertz, we are still bad listeners. This speech is an integral part of the play, as it expresses an opinion with conviction. Imagine such an important address such a crucial part of world history and still the general public is being asked to listen.
A very famous speech by Mark Anthony in the equally famous play Julius Caesar starts with a line ‘ Friends, Romans, countrymen, lend me your ears’ and that is where the irony of the situation lies.
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